Sometimes we close our eyes and just listen
to the whispers of our heart. We all fall in Love
and there are times that we lose ourselves in
our own emotions, move often than not, we
wonder why there Love grows and Love grows cold.
We will begin to search for answers and to find out
where Love has gone wrong, but in the end we will
find ourselves where we started.
We can't question Love, when it has it's own reason.
Love is deeply profound. Most of us believe that Love
is forever, that Love never dies. Only to be disillutioned
in the end, when we joined our hands empty and
our hands longing.
We mistakenly have looked at Love as a need to be
fulfilled. But love is only entrusted to us. We should
not hold it in our hands forever, for we may not find
the strength to let it go when it decides to leave.
We should only embrace it's warmth and glow while
it lasts and then freely open our arms when it's time
to say good bye, no matter how painful it is.
sometimes, no matter how hard things are, no matter how difficult it is to swallow... there are moments that swallowing is never an option... you'll just have to suck it all up then spit it out... in the end, you'll eventually let go and give yourself another chance to bite and chew again...'coz there are a lot of delicious dishes here in the world... you'll just have to think carefully before having a taste of each one of it.
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ReplyDeleteMy Friend, thanks for making me strong...and letting me show that there is more to Life...
nothing will change...
"Love is not a feeling.. It is n ability"
ReplyDeleteBawat taong dumarating at nagiging bahagi ng ating buhay na kung minsan ay natututunan nating mahalin at nagiiwan ng malaking marka sa ating puso ay maaaring mawala anu mang oras at pagkakataon kung ito ay hingin ng panahon.
ReplyDeleteBagama't nakakapanghinayang bitiwan ang isang relasyon na matagal mong inalagaan at pinagtuunan ng panahon, lagi mo pa ring tatandaan na walang permanente sa mundo at dapat handa ka sa katotohanang ito.
Ang isang binhi (buto) kung hindi mo bibitawan sa lupa hindi ito magiging puno at magkakaroon ng pagkakataong mamunga. Gayundin sa isang relasyon kung patuloy mong hihigpitan sa pagkakahawak ang taong mahal mo masasaktan ito at manghihina sa piling mo.
Bitiwan mo siya at hayaang hanapin ang sariling kaligayahan..."tama ka madaling sabihin ngunit mahirap gawin pero anu mas pipiliin mo ang manatili siya sa iyo na nagkukubli sa galit at pagkukunwari o ang masilayan ang kanyang ngiti dahil nahanap nya ang kaligayahang inaasam nya at dahil ito sa pagpaparaya mo???!!!
Hindi ba't ikaw pa rin ang naging daan para siya'y mapaligaya.
Di lahat ng pumapasok sa isang relasyon ay nagtatagumpay...kung sa bagay lagi namang ganun sa isang laban minsan panalo ka, sa ibang banda uuwi kang luhaan. Ngunit kailangan mo pa ring patunayan na kayang mong manalo, kaya mong makuha ang tropeong inaasam mo. Kaya laban lang ng laban!!!
Kapusod, the truth hurts. I myself is having a hard time accepting things that I never dreamed to happen and you know that. Maybe its normal for us to do everything in our power to hold on to what we believe in even if we get hurt on the way. But time will come when we start to realize that we could not go on any further and its time to take on a different path. Its hard and painful. But I remember something I've read before,"Someone would come into your life and make you realize why it didn't work." I think its a message of hope, all things happen for a reason.
ReplyDeleteA friend once told me," its alright to keep on fighting,never give up. But put a limit for yourself. Do everything until you're satisfied you've given it your best shot. Then you walk away with a peaceful mind and a content heart."
I really enjoy reading your blog.. i just hope u could also reflect about long distance relationships.. i really need encouragement on how can i continually deal with it.. thank you in advance..
ReplyDeleteyou must love trully always. never love unless you're definite about it. or else, more and more people will get hurt because of you.
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