for Mr.K, I must admit...this is the hardest so far of all the blogs that I have written...I hope that this suffices your thoughts my friend...
"Perfect Love has no fear." 1 John 4:16-20. At first I believed that this pertains to your love of neighbor but I'm wrong. This pertains our Love of God and his Love for all of us. We can't say that we truly love Him if we have worries in life. Trust and Confidence is all that he ask for us. It is also hard for us to say that love is imperfect. Maybe the love that we give is imperfect, it is because of the reality that we are not God and only he can make love perfect.
It is also not quite fair to say that a bad start (what ever reason/s) in a relationship is already an imperfect love. What important is how to nourish it. We all know how it is to nourish a relationship. CONTROL=CTRL stands for:
C- COMMUNICATION
T- TRUST
R- RESPECT
L- LOVE
What to expect in a not so good start of a Love relationship? It will be logical to say that it started as a mess it will end up as a mess as well. But in reality, not all engagements or relationships with a not so good start will end up no where. Just like in a basketball game, a slow start of a team doesn't mean that they will loose the game. In deed love is a crazy game, maybe at the moment you are up by a big lead and with just a wink of an eye you are down. Either we win or loose the game at the end, if we know we gave the best of what we have. We will have the sense of fulfillment and we gain more wisdom. Much wiser, stronger and experienced.
No one looses, even if we are the one who is left alone in the final buzzer. It is the one left alone that gains more from it. Life is full of "Ironies." It is just like a famous line from a famous new wave song of the 80's, "The more you hate, the more you love. The more you Love, the more you go away..."
Some times we hold on to so many things, most of it are useless in your life that you need to place them somewhere else. Or you also consider of disposing them. The question is are we brave enough to let go. Maybe, just maybe the feeling of uncertainty is the one that holds back to decide. This is Life, "Be Disposed, and thy burden will be light."
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alam mo matagal ko nang binabasa ang mga blog mo ta ako yung ibang anonymous sa mga blog mo. ang masasabi ko pa rin sayo bata ka pa madami ka pang pagdadaanan lalo na lalaki ka pa. as i said sayo a million times pagnakakausap kita ng matino walang perfectong pag-ibig sa kapwa tao kundi si perfecto lng. (hehehehe)hindi rin porket pangit na ang simula nyo eh pangit din ang huli nasasainyo yan kung pano kayo mag addapt sa isa't isa how you grow in each other kung di pa mature yung isa be patient on understanding help one another pero kung ayaw ng isa "huston we have a problem" kaya dyan na nag set in ang mga ibang department like SUPPORT para mag guide sa inyo kasi sa inyo pa rin ang decision di ba. pero kung pareho kayong immature pa sa larangan ng pag ibig well ibang usapan na yan di pa kayo dapat pumasok sa relationship na yann kasi pareho pa kayong selfish sa isa't isa pero MINE MINE yan wlang GIVE GIVE with lots of understanding, patients and everything on it! tulad sa pag luluto lahat dapat ng ingridients nandyan walang kulang kung may sososbra a little spice para sa relationship nyo... di ba? LOTS of TLC, UNDERSTANDING and PATIENCE....
ReplyDeleteay naku your young enjoy life noh!!!! - ate
ang drama mo ha.... digs!!!!