on Long Distance Relationships

Thanks to Anonymous who asked for this topic "Long Distance Relationships." Honestly, I don't have that any concrete idea on this. He asked me on how to cope-up with it. That is the challenge. Another thing is on what type of relationship will I tackle? Is it the boyfriend/girlfriend or more the family aspect of relationships. But for the benefit of all, I wil try to tackle both.

Distance, to be away. At first, we may look at it in a very negative mentality. Then if you add the word "Long" before it, it makes the word even worst. But less, we realize that these occurences makes us more stronger and motivated. It all boils down on how a person or what is the out-look of a person in his/her own life. A positive out-look leads to strenghthening and motivating relationships. While a negative one leads to destruction of one's neighbor leading to his/her own destruction, resulting to brokenness of the dreams and aspirations. that person may feel that there is no more reason to Live. Thus, the principle of Black Label by Johnnie Walker: Keep Walking is violated. As I always say, we became stagnant. There is no movement.

Waiting and just standing or shall I say staying in your comfort zone can never be, or is not a movement. This is an important aspect in relationships. Be it the boyfriend and girlfriend type or more on the family aspect. Movement can not start from 'Nothing to Something.' It should be from 'Something to Something even more Greater.' Man can never be contented in what he/she has. We look for something more and when we finally found it. Then the sense of fulfillment sets-in.

Distance should never be an issue. Perhaps maybe, but for some reasons that only reasoning itself can figure it out. We must learn to let go of somethings. Of some relationships, because that way it should be. The reason may not be clear enough or most of the time you can't seem to look at it. What important is that you know that you gave your best shot at it, no regrets in the end. There is no way but to move forward. No more looking back. The conventional reason 'Things happen because it happens' will be accepted.

This is the Anonimity of our Lives: Relationships come and go. Promises are broken. Dreams and aspirations are forgotten.

If you already found the relationship that you will hold-on for a long time, the lessons of the past should come into play: Relationships that will last. Promises that are fulfilled. Dreams and aspirations are renewed once more.

I hope that this would help us. To my Anonymous friend, I hope that you are satisfied with this. Feel free to let me know your thoughts. Vi Ses!! Tusen takk!!